Most side effects from premature ejaculation (PE) treatment are mild and settle within two to three weeks. What you notice depends on the type of treatment. Behavioural techniques carry no medicine-related side effects, topical anaesthetics can cause temporary numbness, and oral medicines can cause nausea, sweating and a lowered sex drive while your body adjusts. A small number of symptoms need urgent care, and this guide covers those too, along with where New Zealand patients can get help.
PE itself is common. Between 30 and 40 per cent of men experience it at some point Cleveland Clinic, 2023. If you are weighing up treatment, or already on it and wondering whether what you are feeling is normal, the detail below should help you have a more useful conversation with your doctor.
Doctors typically draw on three approaches, sometimes in combination.
Which approach suits you depends on your health history, any other medicines you take and what is driving the problem. At Menova Health, suitability is assessed by a registered doctor through an online consultation, and medicines are prescribed only where clinically appropriate. Not everyone is eligible for every treatment. Our guide to science-backed PE techniques covers the behavioural options in more detail.
These have no medicine-related side effects, which is why doctors often suggest trying them first or alongside other treatment. The main cost is patience. Techniques like stop-start take weeks of practice, and some couples find the interruptions frustrating early on NHS, 2023.
Topicals act on the skin, so very little enters your bloodstream. That makes whole-body side effects unlikely StatPearls, 2023. The trade-offs are local ones.
Transfer is preventable. Apply the product as directed, allow the recommended waiting time, then wash off any excess or wear a condom StatPearls, 2023.
Medicines in the SSRI class were developed as antidepressants and delay ejaculation as a secondary effect, which is why doctors prescribe them for PE where clinically appropriate NHS, 2023. Early side effects can include nausea, diarrhoea, sweating, headache and tiredness. These usually improve within two to three weeks as your body adjusts NHS, 2023.
Sexual side effects can also occur, including a lowered sex drive, delayed or blocked orgasm and, less often, trouble with erections StatPearls, 2023. Some men notice mood changes or disrupted sleep. Mention any of these to your prescribing doctor, because a dose adjustment or a different treatment often resolves them.
First few days. What many men notice with oral medicines: Nausea, headache or tiredness are most noticeable.
One to two weeks. What many men notice with oral medicines: Early symptoms begin to fade; sexual side effects such as lowered libido may persist.
Two to three weeks. What many men notice with oral medicines: Most day-to-day side effects have settled or become manageable.
Timeframes come from NHS guidance on ejaculation problems NHS, 2023. Numbness from a topical anaesthetic is different: it wears off within hours of each use.
Medsafe, the New Zealand medicines regulator, classifies how often side effects occur on approved product information. A "very common" effect is seen in around 1 in 10 people, while a "very rare" one affects fewer than 1 in 10,000 Medsafe. The consumer information leaflet for your specific medicine sets out which effects sit where, so it is worth reading before you start.
Get urgent help if you notice any of the following. In an emergency, call 111.
These reactions are uncommon, but they are not the kind to watch and wait on.
A few practical steps make the adjustment period easier.
One thing not to do: never change your dose or stop a prescribed medicine on your own, even if side effects seem minor. Medsafe advises speaking with your doctor or pharmacist before stopping or changing any medicine, because stopping some medicines abruptly causes problems of its own Medsafe. If you want to support treatment with lifestyle measures, see our guide to natural PE treatment options that work with prescription medicine in NZ.
Any medicine that acts on serotonin can affect mood. If you feel flat, anxious or unlike yourself after starting treatment, tell your prescribing doctor and keep your regular GP in the loop.
Free support is available while you sort it out. Call or text 1737 at any time to talk with a trained counsellor. The service is free and confidential, and it runs 24 hours a day 1737, Whakarongorau Aotearoa. In an emergency, call 111.
Get in touch with your prescribing doctor or your GP if:
None of these mean treatment has failed. Often a small adjustment fixes the problem.
New Zealand runs a national monitoring system for medicine safety. Anyone, patient or clinician, can report a suspected side effect to the Centre for Adverse Reactions Monitoring (CARM) through the Medsafe website Medsafe. You do not need to be certain the medicine caused the symptom. Reports like these are how safety issues get picked up early.
Some men use PE treatment for months or years. If that is you, your prescribing doctor will set a review schedule, and it pays to keep those appointments even when things feel stable. Reviews typically cover blood pressure, mood, sexual function and whether your current dose is still right for you.
Keep your regular GP informed about anything prescribed through a telehealth service. Online care is designed to sit alongside your usual doctor rather than replace them. If you are comparing the two pathways, our guide to online versus in-person consultations in New Zealand explains how they differ, including how your privacy is handled.
If side effects are troubling you, or you want to talk through options before starting, a consultation with a registered doctor is the first step. Menova Health provides online consultations for premature ejaculation, beginning with a short online assessment. Treatment is not suitable for everyone, and our doctors will tell you if it is not right for you.
Are side effects from PE medication dangerous?
Usually not. Most are mild, such as nausea, headache or a lowered sex drive, and settle within two to three weeks. Serious reactions such as chest pain, fainting or signs of allergy are rare but need urgent care. Call 111 in an emergency, and raise concerns with your doctor early.
How long do PE treatment side effects last?
For oral medicines, early side effects such as nausea and sweating usually improve within two to three weeks as your body adjusts. Numbness from a topical anaesthetic wears off within hours of each use. If a side effect lasts beyond three weeks or gets worse, ask your doctor about adjusting your treatment.
Are topical PE treatments safer than oral medicines?
They cause fewer whole-body effects because very little is absorbed into the bloodstream. The trade-off is local: temporary numbness, reduced pleasure and possible skin irritation. They can also transfer numbing effects to your partner, which washing off excess product or wearing a condom prevents. Neither option is risk-free, so discuss both with a doctor.
Can I stop my medication if I get side effects?
Not on your own. Stopping some prescription medicines abruptly can cause withdrawal-type symptoms, so Medsafe advises speaking with your doctor or pharmacist before changing anything. Your doctor can lower the dose, switch you to another option or plan a gradual stop if the treatment is not working for you.
What if I already take antidepressants?
Tell your doctor before starting any PE treatment. Oral PE medicines often act on the same serotonin pathways as antidepressants, and combining them can increase side effects. Your doctor may suggest a topical or behavioural approach instead. Never combine prescriptions from different providers without each doctor knowing the full picture.
How do I report a medicine side effect in New Zealand?
Report it to the Centre for Adverse Reactions Monitoring (CARM) through the Medsafe website. Anyone can lodge a report, you do not need your doctor to do it for you, and you do not need proof that the medicine caused the symptom. Reporting helps Medsafe spot safety patterns across the country.
Do behavioural techniques have side effects?
They have no medicine-related side effects, which is why doctors often suggest them first or alongside other treatment. They do take practice, and some couples find the stop-start interruptions frustrating in the first few weeks. Where a doctor considers it appropriate, pairing techniques with medical treatment often gives the best result.
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